Dear Christine Lee Phui San,
When you swim you don’t grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead you relax, and float.”
-Alan Watts
Love needs a lot of faith, hope and trust for it to live.
It requires both sides balancing between their "desire" and their "need"- with their lover's desires and needs.
No matter how jealous you get, no matter how deeply you want to be with them all the time, you must realize there are times which they need to spend alone to recharge themselves - to renew their mind without you.
Don't "grab hold" of them and put them in your love prison - liberate them, and let them hold-on to you while they're running free.
It's hard, but there wouldn't be a more peaceful mind in love than that of he who trusts.
Sincerely,
Christine Lee Phui San.
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